[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.wamba.cz\/jste-ke-svym-detem-uprimni\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.wamba.cz\/jste-ke-svym-detem-uprimni\/","headline":"Jste ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed?","name":"Jste ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed?","description":"Jste typ rodi\u010de, co p\u0159ed sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi pravdu rad\u011bji utaj\u00ed nebo s d\u00edt\u011btem komunikujete otev\u0159en\u011b, citliv\u011b a \u0161etrn\u011b mu situaci vysv\u011btl\u00edte? Se sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi bychom m\u011bli komunikovat neust\u00e1le, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 t\u00e9ma by nem\u011blo b\u00fdt tabu a ve\u0161ker\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky bychom se sv\u00fdm d\u011btem m\u011bli sna\u017eit zodpov\u011bd\u011bt. Otev\u0159en\u00e1 komunikace je ve vtahu rodi\u010d-d\u00edt\u011b velice d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1. Vy\u017eadujete od sv\u00fdch… ","datePublished":"2025-03-01","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.wamba.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"wamba.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.wamba.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f08fec9e5d161146672022190172bcb121f980bd7a64f251ea643f4b19d0f071?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f08fec9e5d161146672022190172bcb121f980bd7a64f251ea643f4b19d0f071?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"wamba.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.wamba.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288833_w1770_t1499887651.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.wamba.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288833_w1770_t1499887651.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.wamba.cz\/jste-ke-svym-detem-uprimni\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":596,"articleBody":"Jste typ rodi\u010de, co p\u0159ed sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi pravdu rad\u011bji utaj\u00ed nebo s d\u00edt\u011btem komunikujete otev\u0159en\u011b, citliv\u011b a \u0161etrn\u011b mu situaci vysv\u011btl\u00edte? Se sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi bychom m\u011bli komunikovat neust\u00e1le, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 t\u00e9ma by nem\u011blo b\u00fdt tabu a ve\u0161ker\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky bychom se sv\u00fdm d\u011btem m\u011bli sna\u017eit zodpov\u011bd\u011bt. Otev\u0159en\u00e1 komunikace je ve vtahu rodi\u010d-d\u00edt\u011b velice d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1. Vy\u017eadujete od sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed up\u0159\u00edmnost? Chcete, aby V\u00e1m pravdiv\u011b \u0159eklo, jak\u00e9 m\u00e1 zn\u00e1mky ve \u0161kole, co bude d\u011blat odpoledne s kamar\u00e1dy nebo co ho tr\u00e1p\u00ed? Pak mus\u00edte up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b mluvit i vy. To, co vy\u017eadujeme od druh\u00fdch, bychom toti\u017e m\u011bli d\u011blat i my sami. Ano, jsou to na\u0161e d\u011bti, a ty prost\u011b mus\u00ed poslouchat a \u0159\u00edct n\u00e1m to, co po nich chceme, t\u0159eba i pod hrozbou z\u00e1kazu nebo dokonce v\u00fdprasku. Ale opravdu to takhle chceme? Nebylo by lep\u0161\u00ed, kdyby d\u011bti samy od sebe p\u0159i\u0161ly a pov\u00eddali si s n\u00e1mi o tom, jak\u00fd m\u011bly den a co se jim p\u0159ihodilo dobr\u00e9ho \u010di \u0161patn\u00e9ho? D\u011bti jsou velice vn\u00edmav\u00e9 osobnosti, kter\u00e9 dok\u00e1\u017eou moc dob\u0159e vyc\u00edtit, kdy\u017e se n\u011bco d\u011bje. Pokud se doma v lo\u017enici s partnerem h\u00e1d\u00e1te, a potom d\u00edt\u011bti tvrd\u00edte, \u017ee je v\u0161echno v po\u0159\u00e1dku, d\u00edt\u011b si velice rychle uv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee z n\u011bj d\u011bl\u00e1te hlup\u00e1ka a \u017ee mu l\u017eete. A pokud takov\u00fdch situac\u00ed nastane v\u00edce, bude si po ur\u010dit\u00e9 dob\u011b myslet, \u017ee lhan\u00ed je naprosto b\u011b\u017enou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed \u017eivota a bude lh\u00e1t taky. Nebylo by mnohem lep\u0161\u00ed s d\u00edt\u011btem promluvit a vysv\u011btlit mu, \u017ee jste se nepohodli, proto\u017ee jste na danou situaci m\u011bli ka\u017ed\u00fd sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor, a proto jste se poh\u00e1dali? Ale \u017ee danou situaci vy\u0159e\u0161\u00edte a v\u0161e bude v po\u0159\u00e1dku? Pokud V\u00e1s d\u00edt\u011b nachyt\u00e1 p\u0159i sexu, taky bude slo\u017eit\u00e9 vym\u00fd\u0161let si poh\u00e1dky. I v t\u00e9to situaci bude nutn\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011bti vysv\u011btlit, o co jde. Pokud ho toti\u017e absolutn\u011b odbudete, stejn\u011b bude hledat odpov\u011b\u010f n\u011bkde jinde. D\u011btsk\u00e1 zv\u011bdavost je toti\u017e nevyzpytateln\u00e1. \u00damrt\u00ed bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho \u010dlena rodiny nebo t\u0159eba i dom\u00e1c\u00edho mazl\u00ed\u010dka je tak\u00e9 situace, kdy se d\u011btem velice \u010dasto l\u017ee. Ale \u00famrt\u00ed je p\u0159ece b\u011b\u017enou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed na\u0161eho \u017eivota. Je to velice bolestiv\u00e1 ud\u00e1lost i pro n\u00e1s, tak\u017ee je logick\u00e9, \u017ee chceme d\u011bti t\u00e9to bolesti u\u0161et\u0159it. Ale na druhou strany i ony mus\u00ed pochopit kolob\u011bh \u017eivota a mus\u00ed na to b\u00fdt p\u0159ipraven\u00e9. Mus\u00ed se nau\u010dit p\u0159ij\u00edmat bolest a poprat se s n\u00ed a my jim v t\u00e9to situaci mus\u00edme b\u00fdt nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed oporou. \u017divot je pln\u00fd stresov\u00fdch situac\u00ed, se kter\u00fdmi se ka\u017ed\u00fd den pereme. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b snad v\u0161ichni rodi\u010de maj\u00ed tendence chr\u00e1nit sv\u00e9 d\u011bti p\u0159ed t\u00edmto sv\u011btem a p\u0159ed realitou. Jenom\u017ee je pot\u0159eba si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee i ony jsou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed tohoto sv\u011bta a je nutn\u00e9, aby se nau\u010dily p\u0159ij\u00edmat radosti, strasti i bolest, kter\u00e9 jim \u017eivot p\u0159inese.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.8\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jste ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed?","item":"https:\/\/www.wamba.cz\/jste-ke-svym-detem-uprimni\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]